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So how do life skills factor into the picture? "A lot of the things people fight about come down to life skills," says Epstein.

That includes everything from work troubles, finances, or even just getting stuff done around the house. And whether this is lacking for one or both partners, it can take a huge toll on the relationship. "There can be a sense of personal failure and low self esteem if you don’t have life skills," says Kirschner. And if your partner is the one lacking, it may breed judgment and contempt, which is one of the worst things for a relationship, says Kirschner.